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Boys and Guys

Soph tagged me this quite awhile ago, but I totally forgot about it.
But now, my blogging inspiratino got back, so here I am, with the tag. (:

RULES:
1. The tag victim has to come up with 8 different points about his/her perfect lover.
2. Have to mention the gender of his/her perfect lover.
3. Tag eight other victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog.
4. If you are tagged the second time, there is NO need to do this again.
5. Lastly, and most importantly, HAVE FUN DOING IT.


I think I will make this more of how to be the perfect gentlemen in girl's eyes. It's easier. (:


1. Guys need to be good at listening. Apparently too many guys think that they are know-it-all and talk way too much. It irritates me to a certain extent, and I really hate it. You should really hear what girls have to say sometimes, because girls aren’t as bimbo as you think. In fact, I think girls are way smarter than guys in certain areas. So, don’t argue with us. You definitely will lose in the end.

2. Honesty. Well, I really can't imagine being with someone who's always lying to me. I think that this is one of the most fundamental thing to build in a relationship. Once you fail in being honest with each other, your relationship only goes downhill. Sad, but true.

3. Caring, loving, yaddayadda. All the normal characteristics that every girl seeks for in a guy. Well, every gentlemen ought to know this. But what sums up to being caring and loving is to be able to come up with those small little gestures, e.g. offer to hold books without being asked, and small lil sweets.. it really DOES make a difference. Try asking any girls and see.

4. Tolerance. This is one of the most important thing to keep the relationship stable, I guess. Girls are very fickle and change their minds easily while guys set up their minds quick, and they won't change. That's why girls take forever to shop while guys take only one hour to get all their stuff. Guys really need to practise up on tolerating on girl's attitude, especially our mood swings. I know it ain't easy, but it's really easy to cheer a girl up you know?

5. Humor. Yes, humor is an absolute must have in a guy. People who are so serious in life are hard to get along. Humor also brings out the fun in a person, and what's there to look for if a guy is always in a moody look and is so dry in words. There's a possibility that the guy who lacks humor can be romantic, but we're still young, we need not be so serious in life. Am I right?

6. If you want to impress a girl, surprises is the way to go. Not in the sense that you scare the girl with fake cockroaches or pull a prank, that is a big No-No. I mean by coming up with things that is unexpected and sweet. Yea, those sweet little gestures that put smiles on both your faces. It could be a small little hand made card accompanied with a lollipop which doesn't have to bomb your wallet, yet it would mean sooo much to a girl. Note, HAND-MADE card. It doesn't have to be extremely nice, it just needs originality. Oh, but if you're loaded, you can do something more, i.e. get her that heels she always wanted without informing her (note: you need to be very sure of her taste and size though).

7. Doesn't get heated up easily, also known as cool-temper guy. C'mon, who loves someone who gets angry every five minutes? None. Even though the girl does something really really bad like dirtying your favourite shirt with chocolate cake accidentally, you need not shout at her. Brush it off if she is sincere enough and forgive her. Your friendship isn't worth to be destroyed by the shirt, go home and use Vanish, and it'll be as good as new. And every girl likes Mr. nice guys.

8. This is a little something extra. I think the ability to play a music instrument really is a plus point for a guy. I fall hard for musicians, especially guitarist, nope, not the electric type, but acoustic and classical. (: It just melts a girl's heart when you play for her. Romantic-ness. Haha, yea guys can go sign up for guitar lessons now. Better still, learn piano, the bomb. Even if you're as geeky as that guy in Beauty and the Geek, once you play the piano so beautifully, you will become a magnet. Heh.


I'm done.
And am smiling.


I tag: Suewei, Amanda, Esther, Eunice, Waelern, Marianne, Lynn, Kinz, Pat


Schedule (for self)
1. Marketing assignment
2. Marketing mid terms
3. Macro assignment
4. Business Law assignment
5. Accounting assignment
6. Rangers stuff

Physically drained.